The Aging Soul

“I am many years older than I was a few days ago” Robert Dabney

The preceding quote is taken from a letter that Dabney wrote just days after his sons death. This is a lesson I have learned in 2008 with the loss of Jill and other struggles. We all understand that the body grows weary from age. Things do not work the same when we are 80 as they did when we were 20. The body becomes a burden. However, the thing that I have learned in 2008 is that the soul ages as well. With every sin committed, with every sad goodbye, with every sorrow we watch friends carry, and with every other strike of the rod of suffering our souls grow more weary and tired. This earth feels less and less like home as the soul ages. I contend that this abuse of the soul is a great grace from God. We live in a cursed world that is longing to be redeemed. This is a world that takes more than it gives. Our weary, broken, limping souls send us away from this world towards Christ. Though I am just 31 I feel that my soul has aged by decades this year. Honestly, I have never been one who truly longed for the immediate return of Christ. There has always been more that I longed to do and enjoy on this earth. 2008 will be to me the year that my tired soul finally broke and said “Amen, come (NOW) lord Jesus”.

Letters to Bryce Extension

Lindsey and Cari have extended the deadline for "Letters to Bryce" for 2 weeks. Please send your letter to letterstobryce@gmail.com or lfwatson(at)gmail.com.

Hijacking Christmas Part III: Coming soon.

Hijacking CHRISTmas Part III: Cutting the Root and Tearing Down the Tree

I'm sorry that posting has been light (insert "non-existent") the last few days, we've been busy in the Baird household Christmas-ing and New Years-ing.

In my first post I identified the root problem of the hijacking of Christmas as the idolatry of consumerism. Fundamentally, this is unbelief in the promises of God in the gospel. People believe that by producing, and consuming stuff, they will be made happy. It stems from an atheistic world view, in which we are our own saviors, or at least we can make our own saviors.

We must realize the bankruptcy of all false saviors, in this case, the god of consumerism. It will not satisfy. It will not make you eternally happy. It is an impediment to true happiness.

For believers, the fight is to rest in God's promises and not the promises of the world. I think this is what Romans 8:13 means when it says "For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live." The fight against consumerism and all other false saviors is to be fought "in the Spirit." Which of course begs the question "what does it mean to fight against sin 'in the Spirit'?" Which is a topic for another blog post. I will be preaching on this in the next few weeks. Suffice it to say that there are right ways to fight against the flesh and wrong ways. We need to fight in the right ways.

For unbelievers, the fight is to rest in God's promises and not the promises of the world. The difference between believers and unbelievers is not that believers never buy the promises of the world and the flesh, but that ultimately we don't trust in them even though we sometimes act like we do.

That's the root. Here is the tree.

This mentality and worldview has permeated our culture and has (especially) infiltrated the church. We play along with the effort of the culture to make us think that stuff can save us. I'm not going to prescribe how we ought to "do Christmas" but I do think that there is a lot of wholesale buying into the traditions of our culture without discernment and prudence and without keeping our priorities. Here's the way Emily and I think about Christmas, even though we haven't implemented these principle perfectly:

1. Christmas is about Christ. We will feel like we have failed if our children don't think about Jesus when they think about Christmas.

2. Christmas is more about giving than receiving. We want our girls to understand the meaning of the coming of Christ as the greatest gift anyone has ever received, therefore we don't want to give our girls so much stuff that they get the erroneous idea that Christmas is about receiving and not giving.

3. Christmas is not about Santa Claus. Ok, this one could be controversial. We have decided not to emphasize Santa Claus in our household. We don't tell them that there is no such thing as Santa, but we don't talk a lot about him. We don't put out cookies for him to eat, and we don't give them presents from him. I'm not saying it is sinful or wrong to do the Santa Claus thing, but we have decided against it. This is a work in process because we definitely don't want our kids to be the snot nosed brats who go around to the other kids and say "There's no such thing as Santa!", but we don't want the fat man in the red suit to overshadow the Baby in the manger.

4. Christmas is not about us. Again, we intentionally limit the amount of stuff we give our kids (even though if you came in our house, you would wonder if we really do!) so that they won't think Christmas is about them. If we just give lip service to Jesus and spend most of our time showering them with presents, I doubt that they'll believe us when we say "Christmas is about Jesus."

I hope these posts on Christmas have been thought provoking at least and helpful to those who are thinking through these issues. This has certainly not been the final word, but it may be a good place to start.

Blessings on you all as you seek to think like Christians. If you are not a Christian, blessings on you as you consider the Christ who's coming we celebrate.